Get Your Girl! Get Your Man!


Have you ever received a phone call and it sounded a lot like the intro to "The boy is Mine" or "Woman to Woman"? Yeah.. me too. Having a "Side-chick" seems like the latest acceptable trend that has actually been inconveniencing and aggravating women for so much longer than we could even imagine. 

The thing that concerns me the most are the side chicks themselves. What could possibly be so glamorous about being a side chick that you'd actually consider it? I'd play second fiddle to NO ONE! Why would you agree to have second best? Or better yet, SOMEONE ELSE'S MAN??

SIDE-CHICK (n): “the other woman; also known as the mistress; a female that is neither a male’s wife or girlfriend who has relations with the male while he is in another relationship” (according to urban dictionary). 

Sure we can blame the men for luring a woman and saying whatever it takes to get her on his "team" but it takes two to tango and we all have that tiny bit of desire fro something that we know that we can't have. Maybe that's what makes a side chick find comfort with an already taken man. No lo se.  


What makes me laugh harder than anything is that some of these women actually think that these men love them. Haven't we learned anything in the past few hundred years? A man will tell you anything you'd like to hear to get what he wants. 

Maya Johnson